Let’s be honest here..some people have no idea what that is..in a nutshell it’s fancy words for stimulating a woman with sex aids or without. For some people it’s a taboo subject whether that be because they are embarrassed of the subject of female clitoris stimulation, or because they don’t know how to do it. For others it’s perfectly natural to want to please your partner. A great guide on how to do it.
One of the most common stimulations are vibrators. As previously discussed they come in all shapes and sizes and a vast arrange of colours. They are becoming, if not already, something that women carry in their handbags! Vibrators are great as they can be used by yourself or by a partner and you can have them on different speeds to suit how sensitive you are. A lot of vibrators are gender fluid and can be used also to stimulate male genitalia as well as female.
For a male, and obviously the partner will benefit from it as well, a cock ring is another great stimulation aid. Whilst the male wears it, it is a tight ring that sits at the base of the male’s penis, effectively because it’s so tight it helps to engorge the penis and usually keeps the erection. For some cock rings, there are “rabbit ears” what I like to call them, on the end of some cock rings so that a partner can also get the benefit of stimulation at the same time. This is a great aid for couples. I personally feel the silicone cock rings are better as they are softer.
A more novelty and fun element of learning different, and some of the best ways to stimulate the clitoris, is by trying out some light-hearted games using for example, sex dice. This puts some fun in the bedroom (or whatever place your in!) and gives you the chance to try out various positions using different aids according to what dice you throw. It’s an ample opportunity for you to find out what stimulations you like and what you don’t.
Another option is of course to use no aids apart from the human touch. By doing this you will know how sensitive you are and what basically gets the blood flowing and the heart racing! As you become more comfortable with your own body or with your partner you get to know what each other likes and doesn’t like and what works for you and each other. This is sometimes for me the best!
Whichever works for you or your partner you can always expand on that and try other things. You don’t have to stick to the same ways every time…experiment! It’s part of the fun and getting to know each other and yourself!